To change or NOT to change

Change is a word that describes the forever constant and perpetual innovation of a specific item or circumstance. Simply put, change is a process that occurs everyday at any point in time, without people even realizing it's occurrence.

From a baby we change into young learners, mimicking and slowly developing our own cognitive ability. By the time we know it, we're already in the dilemmas of teenage-hood. Scouring for the most beautiful girlfriend and engaging ourselves into activities that would slowly define our permanent character.

Jump forward past college and obtaining the dream career with a scroll that not only honors our parents desire for our lives but also take us on a path away from our comfort zone. We then only really start to realize that change has happened.

We weren't that same toddler in diapers or class monitor. We evolved into a person of contribution to society and one that prolongs mankind's existence by starting our own families with children.

But let us not mistake that despite change being flowery, it may also lead us unto a narrow and dim path where regrets will crop up, pushing us onto the edge of the tallest peak in the vicinity. Contemplating the decision to change our life with death. Interesting isn't it?

We live our lives aiming for the next "A" or 4.0 GPA, pay-rise and the next luxurious holiday, but only the few aim to change their lives from zero to hero. And thus i leave you with this,

What's your CHANGE today?

P.s. Should i change my blog layout? Haha. Have a gr8 day!


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Damn cheating boyfriends

People give their heart and emotions to that other person who they deemed to be worthy of it. In this current day, finding the right person is like striking a lottery. Many people end up playing with the other person's emotions. With lies, false promises, and worst of all - cheating with another person.





Cheating may just be as simple as a kiss on the cheek or all the way downright dirty sex. Whichever it may be, being the victim of such a truant lover is nothing to shout about. It just ends up with a bitter taste in the mouth and lots of questions mostly causing self doubt. Insecurities will arise and the most common questions would be:

"Why me? 
What have I done? 
Am I not good enough?"




If you've ever been in such a situation, my sincerest sympathy. That said, I made a video just sharing a view point on this. In a gist, calling cheaters ass holes who aren't worthwhile, and telling those cheated on to be happy the have a bad-hat out of their life, and those cheating with - there's a high likelihood they'd end up playing victim in the near future.





do watch and enjoy! share with friends who have been in a similar situation or are currently going through this hardship!

Damn cheating boyfriends




btw, go watch the movie - love, rosie (beautiful show)

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Dear, Eat my dick!

Not trying to be crude/ rude, but you know how people always get angry and start scolding you? The conversation ends up with suck my dick or eat my dick or somebody else's penis.


Well, look no further today - Louis took it seriously and here's the scoop on what it is like to actually eat a big fat cock. (sorry for being rude!)

Eating Penis Slow Motion

How did that make you feel? Tasty isn't it?

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New year's lust!

It's about 24 hours away till we usher in the new year. The end of 2012 and thanks goodness not the world is coming. 2013 will be better than the previous years as for most each year brings new surprises, endeavors and adventures.

As the men and especially the ladies party hard on new years eve, let's look our best to have the most memorable evening/morning you could possibly have yet!


Here's one of my favorite make-up artists Michelle Phan

Midnight Luster

Wishing you a very happy and blessed new year!!! May it be as magical as heaven is!

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A few words that say it all

You raped her because her clothes provoked you?

I should break your face because your stupidity provokes me.

Rape is not a joke. If you know of someone who has done so or plans to do so, follow that statement. Or report it and leave it to the authorities. I prefer the first choice.



This pic was stolen off the infamous facebook newsfeed!

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Kids sex chics - prostitution?

Came across this on the evergreen (or blue technically) facebook wall. It's about how young boys are having sex with chics!


Now i know what's going on your mind. You're either thinking of wow, eew, or liar.

I assure you this is probably as weird as it gets. I've heard of all sorts of sex, but this takes it to the next level. Probably the kamasutra needs to be updated :P

Here's the video :- enjoy? err...

Nicaraguan Boy Likes To Have Sex With Chickens! (Mother Trying To Find Him A Prostitute Instead)

Below is one with a hilarious crude-ish commentator.

Boy Likes To Do It With a Chicken

Not what you were expecting? Yeah he has sex with chics. Not female girl prostitutes but animal chicken chics. DAMN!

On a random note, our creative and innovative homosapien somewhere has created a robot prostitute. Now does that mean screwing this = cheating on your spouse? haha!

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Suck on someone else!

I hate it when i get sucked. It never feels good. Somehow, I'm the one that always get it. There would be other guys around me, but I would be the chosen one.


Please read what I said, I mean it with all my heart. Sorry to have to reject your loving nature.

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Choices in dilemmas

Have a look at the picture, what do you see?


You probably guessed it right, it's a foot. And that's a pregnant lady. hehe.


But moving on, i found this article on facebook and i feel it's a good read. So enjoy and make your own conclusion at the end :)

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A worried woman went to her gynecologist and said: 

'Doctor, I have a serious problem and desperately need your help! My baby is not even 1 year old and I'm pr

egnant again. I don't want kids so close together.'

So the doctor said: 'Ok and what do you want me to do?'

She said: 'I want you to end my pregnancy, and I'm counting on your help with this.'

The doctor thought for a little, and after some silence he said to the lady: 'I think I have a better solution for your problem. It's less dangerous for you too.'

She smiled, thinking that the doctor was going to accept her request.

Then he continued: 'You see, in order for you not to have to take care of 2 babies at the same time, let's kill the one in your arms. This way, you could rest some before the other one is born. If we're going to kill one of them, it doesn't matter which one it is. There would be no risk for your body if you chose the one in your arms.'

The lady was horrified and said: 'No doctor! How terrible! It's a crime to kill a child!'

'I agree', the doctor replied. 'But you seemed to be OK with it, so I thought maybe that was the best solution.'

The doctor smiled, realizing that he had made his point.

He convinced the mom that there is no difference in killing a child that's already been born and one that's still in the womb. The crime is the same!

If you agree, please SHARE.

Together we can help save precious lives!

Love says, 'I sacrifice myself for the good of the other person.' Abortion says, 'I sacrifice the other person for the good of myself.

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Suicide: a second chance!

If you thought for one moment that your problems would end by your death, you're wrong. It would just carry on - leaving it with people who care about you.



You may say nobody cares about you; your relationship is down the drain; finances are essentially as good as bankruptcy; you're doing the world a favor by removing your worthless and useless self off from the face of the Earth.

Let me tell you something:

You are worth so much more than that!

Don't let people dictate who you are. They may say you're an idiot, a freak, stupid or even a disappointment. But all in all, the decision is in your hands.

You can make a change, you can make a difference!

Don't be a had been, could have been or any other been been. Be a person that is going to be a someone in the future! Everyone has the right for a better future, a better life - it's just whether they endure the pain and life's crap long enough to see the end of the tunnel.


At the end of the day, if all hope is lost - always remember, no matter what religion you believe in (christianity, muslim, buddha, hindu or etc.), that BIG MAN up there is always ready to hear you out and comfort you.

You probably tell me you have tried but to no avail. It's all about timing my friend. May not be today, tomorrow, the next week, month, year, decade - but so long you hang on and persevere, at the right time and moment, you will reap the rewards and be so ever grateful that on this day you chose a better ending for yourself.

Be smart, make a change, make a difference - 

you are more special and worth it than you could ever imagine!

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Question of the week - Relationship taboos!

I may be on to something here. But the do's and don'ts of being in a relationship!



Here is the question of the week!

I mean there are millions of other examples e.g:

Can an attached person (man/ woman)...
1. hold another person's hand while walking?
2. go out with another person alone?
3. sit in a sports car with another person alone?
4. have another person's arm around the waist or shoulders?
5. cheat with another person?

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*another person = opposite gender

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Well, in all seriousness - all the above mentioned can be done, but is it right or wrong? do or not? yes or no? break up or make up?

While pondering about this, enjoy the sweet sounds of one of the loveliest songs ever written!


Paul Anka - Put Your Head On My Shoulder (1963 Version)



Enjoy your week ahead and tell that special someone how you really feel!

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Raw talent! Wow.

Music is a means of expression known to all mankind and some say any living being. No matter your race or religion, country of origin or culture, good music are noticed even by the deaf.

Centuries have passed and yet the means of making music have been the same. From an infant, our mouths babble. We learn to clap and stomp. Subsequently we learn melodies and harmonies by phonations. Those privileged enough manage to pick up musical instruments.



Common ones are the piano, guitar, drums. In asia, the gu zheng, sitar and kompang. There are hundreds and probably thousands of instruments.



Today, well more like several years ago this boy introduced an old yet new instrument. And he played it to it's full potential.

Just awesome talent, this kid makes an instrument out of PVC pipe, awsome !!


Among the popular songs he jammed to were: super mario, pirates of the caribbean, final countdown, lady gaga, james bond and etc.

Hope you enjoyed it as much as i did.



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Is it right? Or wrong?

What is your opinion?



When it comes to couples, the laws of single men and women change. That goes without saying really.

The question is,
Is it right? Or wrong?


Simple examples include:
1. Bros before hoes or chick before dick?
2. To include the partner or best exclude?
3. Going out with an opposite gender alone or just meet on skype? ( that too is risky.. )




So do comment below or ask around and see what kind of reactions you get.




Really, the dilemmas of life. From one with a chic, let's just say best to never follow your wants but use some brains. Hehe.




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Chatroulette just met her!

Chatroulette has been around for a long time.

Most notably, people are on it feeling horny or bored. But this one will surely make you smile :)

Give it a try, maybe you may "find your partner"! haha

Call Me Maybe - Carly Rae Jepsen (Chatroulette Version)

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Wanting to say yes, but no.

Have you ever been in a position whereby you want to say yes but end up saying no? Or maybe saying no but wishing or meaning to say yes?
I think this is a common situation we find ourselves in especially when it comes to relationships and business. In a sense, when you're in a relationship you mean business than play play! Haha
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A simple example is:





Boy - what do you want for valentines?
Girl - anything, up to you :)
Boy - do you want a bouquet of flowers or a diamond bracelet?
Girl - haha. No need lahh
Boy - no really, what would you like?
Girl - anything, up to you :)
~valentines day~



Boy - here's a bouquet of roses (brings her out for dinner)
Girl - so why didn't you buy for me a bracelet?
Boy - you said you don't want?
Girl - no, i said up to you!
Boy - yeah, so i bought you the flowers :)
Girl - ... You're so stupid.
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We all know deep down she wanted both of it. Saying no but meaning yes.
Well, for me today i was faced with saying no although i felt bad. I wanted to say yes but because of several reasons i had to decline. Not that i'm just an ass, but well.. Sometimes i guess i must prioritize myself than others always.
If you're facing such situations, why not share your experience :)



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Laugh till your stomach hurts!

Short and sweet, this is probably one of the best compilation of the funniest videos that i have seen the whole year. I know it's old, but wowwww!!!! BAHAHAHAHAHA

the best ones are near the end of the video!

FUNNY VIDEOS ACCIDENTS compilation#4 HQ High Quality

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Difficulty? Hmph!

Why do we choose to make life difficult for ourselves?

Look at the picture above, it really is an easy choice isn't it? - well, depending if you are a girl or guy and what sexual preferences you have.


But seriously! Majority of people always complain about how stressed up with work or studies or social life or God knows what.

Why?

Why??

Why???

It doesn't make sense to me.

Is it because of procrastination?

.. because of others?

.. because of supernatural forces?!

Well, I'm not really sure: depending on the circumstance at least. I mean if so happened I was being chased by a dog and superman came to save me, then I turned up on the news and reporters start to harass me relentlessly followed by the CIA accusing me of being an accomplice to some terrorist bombing... bla bla bla. You get the drift.

At the end of the day, we can make all sorts of excuse in the world or universe; but deep down we know the real reason life becomes difficult for ourselves.


The reason is because of the choices we make that lead to an inevitable position that does not cater to the required purpose of an event.


In laymen's language, it's because of our own doing.

So this week, make the "right" choices not the ones we "like".

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New Year's Eve!

1:20am I've just reached home from catching the latest movie :- New Year's Eve!

Day has been like the sea that hugs the shore. Subtle, yet sways.




As i sat in the movie with a bunch of my buddies, I reflect on my year. It's interesting how I could only recall bits and pieces of it. Did I even make a new year's resolution? Wait, I think it was to get through my major exams this year. haha.

The show really speaks about many people. Most of whom dwell in the past, some daren't take chances; some fight for the wrong things; and some who without realizing, made a huge difference in another's life.


I don't know who in the above you are, but I definitely can say : If your heart feels that tingle inside of you, beats faster when you just imagine something/one, and if it stops when you're just about to do something you never thought possible....

GO FOR IT!

Isn't life just amazing. Take a breather with deep inspiration and a slow exhale. You may just think of the next big thing this world, or your own big world has been waiting for.





The year is coming to an end, and i'm still trying to figure out what am i to do before that Cinderella midnight to 2012. If you're in the same shoes, go find it too! If you're done, share how to do it! If you're uncertain, at least make your life count in another person's!

HAPPY NEW YEAR! 

.... in advance!

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